Archive for November, 2009

Written by on November 30th, 2009
miguel A. asked: Ik heb een vriend die ja aan haar fiance zei, maar twee dagen te weten kwam geleden dat hij voet het krullen heeft amulet. She' s dat denkt over het geven van hem rug de ring, zou zij moeten? Related posts:Hoe lang zou je wachten tot iemand voor te ...
Written by on November 30th, 2009
Katie W asked: Ok so Nina Caliente and Mortimer. I got them together. I had mortimer propose engagement and then later proposed marriage and nothing has happened. It looked like Nina accepted but no wedding. I read that you needed to buy an alter so i did that. It didnt ...
Written by on November 30th, 2009
dona asked: A guy(say Tom) said he had feelings for me while i was in coll but i was nt interested in him then.I really had a bad relationship with a guy and had a baby with him but now everything is over.Recently i met Tom in a supermarket and ...
Written by on November 29th, 2009
cvin03 asked: Tan mi novio y yo hemos sido juntos un poco durante seis meses. Related posts:Asesoramiento de matrimonio para mujer? Chris T asked: Yo hemos estado casados durante tres...¿comportamiento de la oferta de la Pre-unión? ¿Usted conocía a su socio era el? ¿Las muestras estaban a punto de ...

So…my boyfriend and I have been together a little over six months. He has given me an “open invitation” to move in to his place and frequently says that we are going to get married. Here is the problem…I think he is very selfish. I know that he offered me his house (which is not selfish), but I feel it is more so that he can have me around for his pleasure (if you know what I mean) than it really is because he enjoys my presence that much. In addition to his selfish ways, I don’t know if I am physically attracted to him. I guess the more time we spend together, the less I feel that we are compatible and it is obvious that he feels the opposite. I think he is a good guy with good morals and values and he is definitely what I have looked for in a man. I also feel that his selfish ways could change with more commitment on my part and that physical attraction is not everything. But I am stuck as to what I should do?? I have tried to discuss my concerns with him, even to the point of saying that I am not going to settle when I get married. In the same conversation explaining that I feel he is a bit on the selfish side. I don’t feel like it really got me anywhere. I also think I may be a bit afraid of commitment (I have been married & divorced once already and don’t intend on a repeat) so I am super cautious about certain traits and I am not going to settle for less than I feel I deserve. Anyways, I think he is going to propose in the near future and I don’t want to have to say no, so how do I let him know that before a marraige proposal occurs that some things need to be different?? Thanks for all of your answers, I do agree that we need a lot more communication. As for him being able to change his selfish ways, I attribute his selfishenss to never being in a long term relationship and being single for many years, and I do feel that people can change if they want to.

Written by on November 29th, 2009
cvin03 asked: Related posts:I’m having problems in my marriage. Its 1 yr we have been married (luv marriage) & life is getting difficult with every day. Me & my hubby fight almost everyday. Though we love each other a lot (even he confesses that), small issues are making lives ...
Written by on November 29th, 2009
zocotroco asked: My former boyfriend proposed and said no we eventually broke up after years together could not live him because realized that did not marry him enough should have done it differently. My former boyfriend proposed and said no we eventually broke up after years together could not marry. My former ...
Written by on November 28th, 2009
Ashling asked: O.k., mijn vriend en ik ben samen 4 en een half jaren geweest en we' gekend; het re gaan samen blijven en krijgen huwde uiteindelijk. Alvorens ik in dit ga, wil ik enkel zeggen, heb ik Geen tweede gedachten over het huwen van hem of iets in die ...
Written by on November 27th, 2009
pero♥agni asked: Related posts:dream of rejection in a marriage proposal? I’ll be your distraction asked: hi i dreamt that my...Are these true thoughts on the acceptance of a marriage proposal? Gilbert asked: Woman wedding and evening gowns, Gästeliste, the...¿Cómo su esposo propuso a usted? Barefoot Girl ♀ asked: ...
Written by on November 27th, 2009
licoriceallsorts0444 asked: persoonlijk denk ik zijn vrij oneerlijk, vooral aangezien het geen " was; nr, never" soort ding het een " was; ik houd van u, maar im niet klaar yet" type van ding ten eerste, zijn niet me zo einde dat die persoon in de antwoorden gebruikt. ten tweede is ...
Written by on November 27th, 2009
Michael S asked: Ons lokaal document stelde vorige week een verhaal in werking. Een ongeveer mens die die een Internet campagne begon wilde hij aan zijn fiancee tijdens de Super Kom voorstellen en vroeg om schenkingen om voor de advertentie te betalen zegt. Hij kreeg aan ongeveer 75,000.00 (niet een ...
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